In other words, NLP is about identifying the ingredients for success, documenting that system, and applying it to improve how we interact with the world. By changing the core of our linguistic system (the unconscious), we can create real change and evolution and get where we want to go. We can also share these systems with others to help them achieve excellence.

Because NLP is so broad and generic, you can apply it in almost any situation. Some examples include:

• Coaching and inspiring others by helping them look closely at their interactions with the world
• Identifying how you experience different relationships and how that compares with your ideal outcome for those relationships
• Sharing feedback in a positive, constructive manner that generates real change
• Accepting who you truly are and identifying areas that you would like to grow in
• Managing your thoughts and feelings so you feel in control of your environment

Can you think of ways that you might use NLP in your life?