There are a few different ways to create and strengthen rapport. When you begin communicating with someone, you should first use basic NLP techniques to analyze their thought processes and representational systems. Once you have established a basic connection and a mutual sense of trust, then you can work on developing and deepening rapport.

Like other NLP techniques, you must use these methods in a discreet manner to avoid irritating or insulting the other person. Not every technique is appropriate in every situation. And remember, these are just guidelines, not hard and fast rules.