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When you miss your deadlines, as you did today, it makes me look bad to my own boss. I feel as though these deadlines are not that important to you. I’d appreciate it if you give me more frequent updates so that I know whether you are able to get the assignment completed. It would be helpful if you updated me ahead of time so that I can help if you feel that you are falling behind.

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When you are late for work more than the very rare time, I feel like people are questioning my leadership, and that you might not care very much about your position any longer. I have noticed you more than 10 minutes late on three occasions in the past week. I need a commitment from you that you are going to be on time from now on.