This stage is characterized by violence and destructive behavior. Declared wars, undeclared wars that include military action, spousal homicide, and workplace violence are all demonstrated at this stage as one party tries to gain measured advantage over the other.

There is still communication at this stage, although the use of conversation has been eliminated. Physical action including the firing of weapons, hitting someone, or throwing a piece of furniture all have a message to them as one party tries to outmuscle and/or completely annihilate the other.